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Being Reasonable

Right, whilst a fair few of you bitch about me and think you know everything about me; I'd like to thank the wonderful support I've had off so many others. The messages through facebook have been incredible, many from people who have said the same happened to them and they know how it feels.
All that happened was I commented on This Morning's facebook status talking about bowel incontinence and I was approached by a lovely reporter. The reason I said I would go ahead with being in a story was simple - as soon as I wrote that comment I had dozens of people comment and even more message me. I thought to myself 'if one comment helped these people, then what more could a story in the papers do?'.
If you would like a read then you can look at the Daily Mail Online, The Mirror, Plymouth Herald and I even made it as far as an Australian Site.
I have to say - I'm disgusted at people finding the need to look for someone to blame. 'Let's boycott Co-Op', 'Sack the person in store' or the most popular one 'I'm never shopping in there again'.

I'm sorry but, WHAT?
I genuinely think you're missing the point!

I did this so people didn't feel alone, so stores can be educated on knowing about the 'Can't Wait' card, so health and safety regulations could be less harsh as to let people with illnesses use to toilet.
This is NOT the fault of one person who, for all we know it could be their first day at a new job and, could have been terrified to get into trouble so turned away. 

 The main thing that upset me was, I contacted co-op...most of my friends on facebook and my family will support me through that. It had hundreds of comments and I did not get a single apology. That's all I wanted.

 To the people saying I'm humiliated now -
No I'm not, I did what I was set out to do. The hundreds of messages I'm receiving are evidence of that..people now WANT to know what it is. I'm seeing the Can't Wait card all over facebook. I am so proud of all the people messaging me admitting it happened to them too.

Let's all together just help RAISE AWARENESS. 

 This is not a hate campaign towards Co-op, but to Co-op and any other store who doesn't have customer toilets - if someone asks to use the toilets with tears down their face....I don't think it's to have a nap.

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